Husband and wife both are never equal but both individually have some unique qualities. One more sharp, more intelligent, the other more hard-working, both with different habits.
There’s a gap between every two persons. When both talk together the gap is filled up. We as husband and wife not only talk but all the way live together. The gap can be filled up easily by friendship, loving and valuing each other. We have shared something the most precious, our children, result of our extreme love and ultimate relationship indeed.
There are two bitter realities in our lives. One is disease, other is the death. In case of disease, we and our family are in a severe problem and in case of death we are out and our family has no way other than to cry out in our love and for a series of forthcoming problems that may be financial, social etc.
We’ve two immediate relatives we expect and look at them for relief, one is, husband’s brothers and sisters, other is the wife’s. Do you think they can take responsibility to care our children? I think no. Why to blame them, can we, if it happens with our brother or sister? Again the answer is no. We have balanced our own lives with difficulty. There’s only one person in our life that will support and take care of our children even at the cost of life. That’s our spouse. That person is so important. Do we want to quarrel and fight with that person? Do we want to punish the person for the small mistakes or small deeds that we think are mistakes. We keep our money in banks paying them a lot for their services; keep ourselves at their terms and conditions so they may take better care of our money. Our spouse is taking care of our children or earning for them. Why are we bitter with each other.
Always love your spouse, try to overlook the mistakes, we are not always right, we may be wrong sometimes.
Do motivate your spouse to progress, help and support a lot. In crisis everyone will leave us by and by but not our spouse not even our children. We both are the most important for each other. If we are cross whom will we share our problems with? Will that person be sincere to us as compared to our spouse? Sometimes we lose blessings by our own mistakes or for petty matters or for our ego and when we realise the time has elapsed. Are the petty matters or our ego more important than our spouse? Certainly not.
Review your relationship. Think again. Think again and again.